365 Project: A daily dose of KevenJacobs
by kevenjacobs
Helloooo friends ❤ So today, I received a very hateful message from a girl I don’t even know. Here is what it said:
ust because someone took photos of you with a good camera, does NOT make you a model. I’m literally considering posting your photo for a pro-anorexia site. Being skinny is attractive, but having ZERO boobs, ZERO ass, and tiny chicken legs with a bloated belly isn’t hot. Quit being ridiculous and get over yourself
I don’t know what posses people to say such mean things. I’m going to address the message she sent now. I am not trying to be a model, I’d like to be a writer. And I think I’m very talented, and headed in the right direction to do just that. I am very aware that I am thin, and super tiny. I’ve always been that way. I do NOT have an eating disorder, and I KNOW full well I have chicken legs. Sue me.
I’m more than content with my body. It’s completely natural and I’m so thankful that I don’t have to try very hard to maintain what I was given. I eat what I want, and I don’t hit the gym on a regular basis. So hate me?
I do have my flaws, but I think it’s sad that someone had to point them out to me.
I’ll add a few to her list:
One of my sides is curved more than the other. I have a slight muffin top. I’m too pale. I dislike my elbows. And sometimes I wish the space between my shoulders and breasts had less fat. I have a double chin if I try hard enough. My bottom teeth are crooked. My eyebrows are uneven, and I tend to get razor burn. But I DON’T CARE; because I know I’m beautiful.
The fact that she had to point out my flaws for me shows me how ugly SHE is. We all have flaws, but that’s what makes us human, and who we are.
So my message for today, is love yourself just the way you are. Your flaws are beautiful too.
❤
keven 
Marvelous post. The thing I’ve learned lately, when you run your goals, show your passions, and take risks there is always a few people that will take issue with you. I learned that the hard way. Being a person that hopes to make everyone happy all the time doesn’t help matters. I’ve come to believe though that by doing something you will have believers and gatekeepers. Focus on the former. Others typically speak from insecurities within themselves. If you dont call yourself something and believe you can do it, no one else will either. Good for you for putting it out there.
Thank you. I love the words you’ve written here. Really helps me keep moving forward 😀
nice!!!
thank you 😀
Right! Be who you are and don’t pay attention to those who can’t understand your need to express yourself through this blog 🙂 cheers!
😀
Just keep moving on and keep doing your thing. Keep right on blooming.
xLaura
Thank you, I fully intend to 😀
One thing I have learned as a blogger is that it takes immense courage to have an official place where it’s all about you, your pictures, your thoughts, your writing. By putting yourself out there it leaves you open to haters. It happens, I’ve had a fare share of snarky mean comments and all you can do is take it at face value. If they were mature they would just not read your blog. But keep doing what you do.
-Bianca at http://theinbetweengirls.wordpress.com/
It’s so true. Thanks for your kind words ❤ 🙂
Keven I love this post so much that girl that wrote that aweful message to u is extremly insecure and obviously jealous!!! You are so talented!!!! I love reading your blog! and on top of that you are absolutly beautiful!!!! Stay strong and secure in yourself because you are pretty amazing!!!!!!!
Thanks, lady ❤ 🙂 I appreciate it!
I’m glad you know how awful and wrong that girl was to have spoken to you like that. Cyber bulling is just pathetic and very cowardly.
Keep up the hard work girl! Though we have never met I enjoy reading your blog and I can tell you are beautiful on the inside and out!
Xoxo.
Cyber bullying is a terrible thing. I’m glad she picked on someone who’s strong enough to not let it bother her. 🙂
Thank you very much!!! ❤
Hey Keven,
I never knew there was this blog and that you wrote your response to that “mean girl”. You are beautiful and stronge and very well written, talented and have a great sense of humor and people love you. I’m so glad you are my daughter 2 and Jenn’s Best. We love you. Keep doin what you love … your a beauty inside and out. ❤ Momma Wendy.
I LOVE YOU WENDY 🙂 You’re the best ❤ ❤